Am Not Coping

[Shaz51]

ohhhhh @Former-Member , hugs and hugs my friend xxxxx

my step son and his partner had lost triplets at 22 nd week gestation. 

[Shaz51]

very true my sister @Zoe7 

[Zoe7]

There is nothing you can say that will help with such sad news @Former-Member - all you can do is be there for him Hon. 

[Zoe7]

Hi @Pepsimax Nice to see you popping in 

[Former-Member]

Thanks @Shaz51  So sad.

@Zoe7  Be there for them? I cannot even do that! Im 7 hours away. And no foreseeable chance of getting away from here while hubby is so unwell and unstable.

[Pepsimax]

Feel for you @Former-Member such sad news

[Zoe7]

Whilst you can't physically be there for them you can listen when your brother calls @Former-Member but ultimately they have to deal with this sad news in their own way too.

I know you would be straight there if you could but that is not possible. It is also important that you look after yourself in all this too. Even though this has not happened to you it will still have an impact on you - so being mindful of that is important - don't bottle up your own emotions Hon and reach out to us and your psych for support.

[Faith-and-Hope]

Can you send them a beautiful card and something small and personal @Former-Member ?  They will need acknowledgement and tokens of comfort in their grief, and these are things you can do from far away.  I recently lost a cousin.  I phoned her mum as soon as I heard, and I have a small photo frame to send her, now that it has been a couple of months.

Its so sad, and I am feeling for all of you.  Teary night here anyway ...... lots of loves coming your way.

💜💜💜🌷💜💜💜🌷💜💜💜

[BlueBay]

Oh @Former-Member that’s really  Sad news. 

I’m sorry ❤️

Could you send a card and flowers. It is hard to know what to write. 

I hope you can sleep yonight snd your headache goes away. 

Take care ❤️❤️

[Appleblossom]

@Former-Member 

Sending and receiving a card can help. Just an opening and acknowledgment.