Yes @Appleblossom
I'm not complaining in the past but revelling in today.
@TAB @Dreamy @avant-garde @Glisten @tyme @Jynx
The app. Finch .com is helpful but today, I realised my boundry thing was probably kickstarted by @Glisten in that she wrote about me needing boundaries around my ex husband who was practically suffocating / strangling me with his personality. Not his fault but who do I put first ? Me or him ? Do I run away from Mr Rocker the very flawed silly billy and let my ex husband suffocate me ?
How do I do it because I had to own I was boundryless
And what does that mean ? It took a long time. @ENKELI I think was talking about how she FELT people.
That's a tick over here
I met a very very old friend - many years ago we were all part of a very ( big word here )
Narcassistic church group of people.
But I ended up having lunch with him. He is today an extremely busy psychotherapist who flies around the world helping businesses with trauma therapy .......
We had lunch and guess what ? He was acting BOUNDRYLESS. He picked up my feelings. !!
His empathy and straight talk ( me) cleared up years of my youth and corrected it.
But he was boundryless. And it's taken a few months, I forgave myself he said hell'e see my youngest son for trauma therapy for free. My son is not ready - that's a new story.
He is boundryless. I can survive.
