@Former-Member @Bunniekins it is sad, but also interesting to read your talk about birth mothers. I can identify in so many ways. Sadly once family dynamics are a bit skewed in that area it can take a while, generations, to settle things down after the damage done.
I was a bit past focussed as I needed to understand what happened as it mattered to all my siblings.
Now I can shift from past, to present more easily, so I guess that means some healing is done.
Last night I went to a concert. It was local. Met a group from my new church. It was very classical and very good and I knew one person on stage, but the great thing was there were lots of people I knew in the audience, and so leaving was very social for me. I felt the MOST connected I have ever felt. An interesting thing is that one of the people was from the vax protests and one was greenie and the others were Labour party, so it was also a very political night. Luckily they did not argue, as they were there for the music, and did not know each other or their political leanings.
Feeling a lot coming together for me. Hope you all are as well as can be.
