17-08-2025 07:59 PM
17-08-2025 07:59 PM
Happy Sunday! 🥰
Doing a little check-in with everyone to see how slowing down is feeling.
I'm going to move on to a new theme next week and would love your suggestions - what would you like to explore? ✨🧚
@Till23 @Bow @Blackcloud @Sunnyside226 @avant-garde @Oaktree @Captain24 @MissinTooth @tyme @Dimity @Shaz51 @The-red-centaur @Appleblossom @starsmile @Cuddlebear @MDT @PeppiPatty @Jacques @ENKELI @Glisten @lonemushroom @Junie @MotherDuck @Snowie @creative_writer @Sparky79 @BlueBay @BluJay@Snowie @AlwaysMyself @Kashmina
18-08-2025 03:31 PM
18-08-2025 03:31 PM
I know you have been working on striking a balance between effort and ease @Captain24. How did you go with this over the weekend whilst you were away? ✨
18-08-2025 03:35 PM
18-08-2025 03:35 PM
I am so happy to read that you have been allowing yourself some time to regulate and create stillness before doing all that you have to do. @MissinTooth Is a hot drink by the fire on the cards this evening? 🥰
18-08-2025 03:49 PM
18-08-2025 03:49 PM
How did your assignments go @Oaktree? And how are you feeling now that your support worker and psychologist are back? I am sure that is helping with feeling supported. 🥰
18-08-2025 03:49 PM
18-08-2025 03:49 PM
I did really well with it Saturday afternoon when I got to Kiama and I did well Sunday @AuntGlow Spending time watching the ocean. Today was a bit harder. Just over socialised and raining a lot but I’m just going to chill for the afternoon. I had to push myself today to be nice all day but other than the anxiety of driving so far I’ve been doing a lot of self care
18-08-2025 07:02 PM
18-08-2025 07:02 PM
Ah, that sounds so calming. @Captain24
I understand the irritation that can come about from too much people time haha. It sounds like you did a great job of balancing being a present friend, but also coming back to yourself.
Amazing work. 🤩
18-08-2025 08:48 PM
18-08-2025 08:48 PM
@AuntGlow slowing down... I'm often in functional freeze but a few days ago I went into acute freeze when needing to return a phone call. I don't think that's what you meant.
Still looking for self-soothing methods, it's a work in progress.
19-08-2025 09:33 PM
19-08-2025 09:33 PM
@AuntGlow I also took a day off work last and gave myself permission to stop! It wasn't about slowing down...I needed to come to a complete stop and take care of myself.
Sometimes I wonder whether slowing down, giving myself permission to stop is giving in...
I feel really unmotivated at the moment and I'm finding myself having a hard time getting out of bed, getting moving and wanting to stay out of bed. But I push myself because I fear that if I give myself permission, I won't be able to find the momentum again. I don't know, just thoughts.
I haven't had a cuppa by the fire this week. It's been a busy and challenging week so far. But I've been trying to find other ways to slow down - like spending an hour working on my diamond dot.
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