28-12-2020 08:08 PM
28-12-2020 08:08 PM
@Judi9877 Hey Judi9877 thank you for the tag :D. I have had a great day my ex came up and we had dominoes and spent time together. It was wonderful. It is now beautifully raining which is fantastic. Hoping you have a wonderful restful evening. Love peaxxx
29-12-2020 05:01 PM
29-12-2020 05:01 PM
Hi @greenpea @jamesle2015 @Adge @frog @MDT @Shaz51 @Former-Member and all those here. How are you? What's happening in your part of Australia? Are you at the beach or tuned into the cricket? Maybe you are like me who is having a relaxing day at home just doing some knitting and some reading? I hope you are having fun whatever you are up to!
@greenpea I see you caught up with your ex. That must have been pretty stressful but I'm glad to see you handled the situation well. Domino's pizza sounds yummy. What type of pizza did you eat? I will admit I like their deep pan pepperoni pizza!
Talk later!
Judi9877☺️🏝
29-12-2020 05:19 PM
29-12-2020 05:19 PM
29-12-2020 05:34 PM
29-12-2020 05:34 PM
@Judi9877 Hey Judi9877 my ex is a dream. Our relationship is better now than we were married :D. He buys me flowers every time he visits. He is great with the kidults. He has a gf so that makes him happy. I am his best friend. I am very lucky 🙂
29-12-2020 05:52 PM
29-12-2020 05:52 PM
Hello @Judi9877 , I haven't been around on the forums much so I just came across your thread. Thank you for creating it.
29-12-2020 08:36 PM
29-12-2020 08:36 PM
It's almost 40C today, Hot Hot...
39C or 40C tomorrow....
Yikes...
Adge
29-12-2020 08:58 PM
29-12-2020 08:58 PM
Currently sitting by the pool watching kids and grandkids enjoy themselves.
Wondering what day it is in this strange week between Christmas and New Year.
30-12-2020 08:47 AM
30-12-2020 08:47 AM
This is a cool thread @Judi9877 thanks for taking the lead.
@Eve7yes we're in the zone between Christmas and New Year. My early morning anxiety didn't get the brief, but it passes, and overall I haven't been this relaxed for a while. Sounds like some good family time for you.
Hi @MDT I like the change to name and nod to moving forwards
Good to see you @Former-Member
Hi lovely @greenpea How did you manage to get to such a good situation with your ex? My situation is still in a sad state re ex, though better since kidults can largely manage themselves.
How's today shaping up everyone?
30-12-2020 09:18 AM
30-12-2020 09:18 AM
@frog Hey frog I think he feels alot of guilt over what happened when I was ill with my mi. He was having an affair when I was manic but in his defence he didnt understand what was going on with me at that time. He just thought I was being a b****. He has apologised profusely since that time so now he goes out of his way to help me out. I think his gf hates me lol as she wont speak to me lol. Anyway that is all in the past now which I remind him when he brings it up but I would say it haunts him to this day.
30-12-2020 09:33 AM
30-12-2020 09:33 AM
Well it sounds like something good came out of it @greenpea
My ex cheated, lied, bullied and seems unremorseful. I sometimes feel sorry for him because I don't know if things have gone well for him since. I didn't want it to end and have to remind myself that it was his choice and is not my responsibility.
I have lots of good people in my life now and I'm very grateful for that.
Have a good one!
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